You hear tales of people saying they are doms claiming they own someone or that by simply talking to a sub they have to obey them. It's sad truly, these people haven't even come close to the core aspect of bdsm. You see or hear about people who degrade and insult people because they haven't sent a pic or are ignoring them. I do not have mush real world experience and in my youth I was not much different then these idiotic people. I thought a Dom was someone who controlled someone and that was it
I was a young, naive fool. Over time I have found what, I think, a real relationship between a Dom or a sub is. It is NOT simply saying " me Dom see me your tits " it is much more complicated. A real relationship between a Dom and sub is the trust that has been developed between the two. The trust that your partner knows when to stop and the trust that they won't do anything that you do not want. But I want to hear what you think and be honest.
I was a young, naive fool. Over time I have found what, I think, a real relationship between a Dom or a sub is. It is NOT simply saying " me Dom see me your tits " it is much more complicated. A real relationship between a Dom and sub is the trust that has been developed between the two. The trust that your partner knows when to stop and the trust that they won't do anything that you do not want. But I want to hear what you think and be honest.
