why is it that the majority, or dare i say it all so called doms/mistress wanting only skinny bean pole subs? i find this to be a recurring theme around here, and other sites. i want to serve but can not even get a first chance at doing so let alone a reply from so called adds looking for slaves or subs. i am about to just say screw it and look at exploring and growing the little seed of a dominant side that i have kept dormant for so long. anyways time to get off my soap box. i was just wondering if anyone else has seen the same thing or has a reason for it.