I want to apologize upfront in case anything in this post comes off as confusing or incoherent. I'm going to attempt to put this post together a bit differently then I have in the past. Hopefully this comes across as well as it does in my head
As I've spent time going through this cycle the biggest takeaway I've learned is to be as open and honest as possible. To be thorough and upfront with as much as you can. Because for this type of relationship to work, there has to be trust. And not just basic trust, that you might build with a coworker or casual friend. But real, genuine and sustainable trust. Because this can be scary. For a lot of people this is at the core of themselves and who they are. And sharing such intimate and vulnerable parts of ourselves can be daunting and scary. So to truly build something worthwhile and lasting, there has to be trust and that's built through communication. I can admit in the past that I've become nervous about getting too deep down the rabbit hole and burned bridges. But it's also helped me realize just has a big a part of me this is and how much I am willing to put into it.
So I guess that is my long winded way of saying that I am willing to work for and towards this. That I want to be able to put as much of myself into this as possible. In a dream world, I would meet someone in my day to day life and it would just click. We would both mess well and fulfill those roles for each other. But I also realize how long a shot that is. But I am willing to give as much as possible for any type of relationship that is out there if it's right for both parties.
So I guess onto the main details:
Me as a Submissive:
- For me, this is who I am. I truly feel like I am being who I am meant to be when I am serving another. It's cliche but in the rest of my life, I am normally the one in charge or making most of the decisions. And while I can handle that, I also know that isn't who I am to be. I long to find someone that I can serve. That I can dedicate myself to and give my all to their pleasure. I crave structure and control. And I also like to be pushed. I want to be the best sub that I can be and I know that we grow the most through adversity. So I want to have my boundaries pushed and expanded. I want to find out just what my limits truly are and just what I am capable. I can be very opinionated about certain things but also am very good at listening and taking direction. I am also very hard working and will always put everything I can into what I am doing.
My main kinks are charity and micromanagement. I really enjoy being controlled to the max. Knowing that even if my Domme isn't around, I am still fully controlled. I want to be reminded of my servitude as much as possible because I know if keeps me fully focused to be the best submissive possible. And that's my goal in this, to serve. Rather that be sexual, worship, cleaning, being a pain slut, research or any other then that my Domme desires of me.
Me outside of Kink:
- I am 32 and divorced. I live alone, minus when one of my nephews come crash at my home. I work in the teaching field. Very specialized in what I do. I love to be outside. Hiking is my pastime of choice. I enjoy running to clear my head. I also enjoy reading and try to find time whenever I can. I am definitely a fantasy geek when it comes to books and movies. Brandon Sanderson is my favorite author without a second thought. I try and stay active. I enjoy cleaning and spending time with my family. Love going to the movies.
Most people would have no idea I am a submissive type. I am on the quiet side and love to listen but will talk an ear off if it's an interesting subject.
What I am Looking for:
-In terms of the type of person....I'm not sure I can give a set answer. There are too many amazing and wonderful Women out there, with various attributes to try and pigeon hole what I am looking for. I do tend to click better with someone who is very strict but who I can also have normal conversations with. Someone who I can connect with but is also able to make her authority known at all times. I'll list my likes and dislikes but other then that, if You think we could be a match, please message me. I appreciate people for who they are and what makes them special.
Likes:
- Rules
- Control
- Micromanagement
- Chastity
- Tease and Denial
- Impact Play
- Humiliation
- Semi Public
- Anal
- Pet Play
- Body Worship
- Bondage
- Confinement
- FLR
Dislikes:
- Messy
- Watersports
- Hypnosis
Limits:
- Illegal
- Blood
- Puke
- Animals
- Social Suicide
Toys:
Chastity Cage
Suction Cup Dildo
Set of Plugs
Vibrator
Inflatable Butt Plug
*And thank You for Your time and consideration if You actually read all of that. I really do appreciate it
Kik: mcflyer12
As I've spent time going through this cycle the biggest takeaway I've learned is to be as open and honest as possible. To be thorough and upfront with as much as you can. Because for this type of relationship to work, there has to be trust. And not just basic trust, that you might build with a coworker or casual friend. But real, genuine and sustainable trust. Because this can be scary. For a lot of people this is at the core of themselves and who they are. And sharing such intimate and vulnerable parts of ourselves can be daunting and scary. So to truly build something worthwhile and lasting, there has to be trust and that's built through communication. I can admit in the past that I've become nervous about getting too deep down the rabbit hole and burned bridges. But it's also helped me realize just has a big a part of me this is and how much I am willing to put into it.
So I guess that is my long winded way of saying that I am willing to work for and towards this. That I want to be able to put as much of myself into this as possible. In a dream world, I would meet someone in my day to day life and it would just click. We would both mess well and fulfill those roles for each other. But I also realize how long a shot that is. But I am willing to give as much as possible for any type of relationship that is out there if it's right for both parties.
So I guess onto the main details:
Me as a Submissive:
- For me, this is who I am. I truly feel like I am being who I am meant to be when I am serving another. It's cliche but in the rest of my life, I am normally the one in charge or making most of the decisions. And while I can handle that, I also know that isn't who I am to be. I long to find someone that I can serve. That I can dedicate myself to and give my all to their pleasure. I crave structure and control. And I also like to be pushed. I want to be the best sub that I can be and I know that we grow the most through adversity. So I want to have my boundaries pushed and expanded. I want to find out just what my limits truly are and just what I am capable. I can be very opinionated about certain things but also am very good at listening and taking direction. I am also very hard working and will always put everything I can into what I am doing.
My main kinks are charity and micromanagement. I really enjoy being controlled to the max. Knowing that even if my Domme isn't around, I am still fully controlled. I want to be reminded of my servitude as much as possible because I know if keeps me fully focused to be the best submissive possible. And that's my goal in this, to serve. Rather that be sexual, worship, cleaning, being a pain slut, research or any other then that my Domme desires of me.
Me outside of Kink:
- I am 32 and divorced. I live alone, minus when one of my nephews come crash at my home. I work in the teaching field. Very specialized in what I do. I love to be outside. Hiking is my pastime of choice. I enjoy running to clear my head. I also enjoy reading and try to find time whenever I can. I am definitely a fantasy geek when it comes to books and movies. Brandon Sanderson is my favorite author without a second thought. I try and stay active. I enjoy cleaning and spending time with my family. Love going to the movies.
Most people would have no idea I am a submissive type. I am on the quiet side and love to listen but will talk an ear off if it's an interesting subject.
What I am Looking for:
-In terms of the type of person....I'm not sure I can give a set answer. There are too many amazing and wonderful Women out there, with various attributes to try and pigeon hole what I am looking for. I do tend to click better with someone who is very strict but who I can also have normal conversations with. Someone who I can connect with but is also able to make her authority known at all times. I'll list my likes and dislikes but other then that, if You think we could be a match, please message me. I appreciate people for who they are and what makes them special.
Likes:
- Rules
- Control
- Micromanagement
- Chastity
- Tease and Denial
- Impact Play
- Humiliation
- Semi Public
- Anal
- Pet Play
- Body Worship
- Bondage
- Confinement
- FLR
Dislikes:
- Messy
- Watersports
- Hypnosis
Limits:
- Illegal
- Blood
- Puke
- Animals
- Social Suicide
Toys:
Chastity Cage
Suction Cup Dildo
Set of Plugs
Vibrator
Inflatable Butt Plug
*And thank You for Your time and consideration if You actually read all of that. I really do appreciate it
Kik: mcflyer12
