Actual update!
So, it's been awesome having her be my slave. We started off real slow with training and all that, one thing here, another thing there..and eventually worked up to a "You're my slave whenever you're not at work, school, or mandatory family functions (Christmas, birthday, etc)"
One of her rules is no self-pleasure unless I give her permission. This was a rule from early on, when I wanted her to focus on me. A couple months ago, I walked in on her fingering herself. She didn't have much to say, and I didn't make her say much. A couple times I pushed her towards her emotional breaking point (It was more of a 'see how far I can go' type of experiment, both her and I knew it was just an experiment), and I didn't want to break her with this. So, I had her sleep with her hands cuffed to her ankles. The next day, I measured her up for a Neosteel chastity belt.
Before the belt arrived (took 2 months), we did some hard and extensive training. We started talking about Total Power Exchange seriously. I wouldn't cause her to change her life much (if at all), and she knows this.
One reason she trusts me with TPE is that I give her a lot of freedom. Every day there is a note telling her what needs to get done for the day. If, by 6 pm, the items aren't done, she gets punished. I don't care when it gets done, but it must be done by 6. Typical items on the list are cleaning the house, going out and buying some groceries, at least 1 back rub...just small stuff. Sometimes the note says "just be available", and she can do whatever, but must show up when I ask her to. Sometimes, she cooks me dinner, gives me a back rub, and just is sweet on her own accord...when I talked to her about it, she said it's because I make her happy, so she should make me happy.
We talked more and more about TPE, and we decided that the day the chastity belt arrives, that would be her decision day. When the belt arrived, I asked her, and she said she wanted to do the power exchange. We both agreed that it would start the moment the belt was locked on. I allowed her to have 1 hour of solid pleasure (orgasms any way she wanted) before the belt would be locked on. Once it was locked on, she said that she felt the last bit of her freedom "float away". Little did she know that her steel bra was coming the next day
I put the steel bra on her a couple days later (TPE allowed me to do that), and since then, she has been quite passionate towards me. It's truly wonderful. The steel bra is on for 1.5 days, then a half day off, then back on again. After she became accustomed to the belt, it stayed on for a week straight. I don't believe we've actually had vaginal sex in a month...but her oral technique has improved a bunch, and she's disliking anal less and less (When she's housebound for an entire day, I make her wear a bunny tail butt plug for the day, then have anal sex at night). She doesn't like things in her butt, but I like things in her butt, so things go in her butt.
Through chastity belt training, she's learned that she better swallow my cum fully, every last drop, no matter the taste (I've tried to make it super rancid a couple times
). If she misses a drop, ass fucking right there, and the time of the belt extends by a week. If she spits, I fill her ass with an inflatable butt plug, unlock the front shield of the belt, stuff a dildo in her pussy, relock the shield, ring gag her, and call my best friend over. He cums in her mouth, and she must hold it on her tongue for as long as I say, otherwise she gets a whip across her ass (I don't like whips, but I will if I have to). I've had to do this punishment (calling my friend over) exactly once. She learned quickly. After she swallows my friend's cum, I unlock her steel bra, clip her ankles to her wrists, and let him grope her as much as he wants. If he wants to shove his cock in her mouth, all the power to him. He can do whatever he wants with what he has.
All in all, pretty fun. Through all this stuff, we still love each other, and this is just a way to project that love on a different level.
~Kaito