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lovelyaliannnna

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Hi everyone, i'm ali and i am 19 years old. I've always been intrigued by the bdsm life and would love to learn more about it. :)
 

Doctor Pervert

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Ask away, we won't bite. Well maybe we will but thats not the point, what would you like to know?
 

Doctor Pervert

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Hmm ok well first things first you probably need to decide which side of the fence you sit. Do you consider you would be more submissive or are you more of a dominant type? I'm speaking sexually here of course and then there are those who "switch", that is they are submissive in some circumstances and dominant in others.
Next would be what type of kinks interest you, do you like rope bondage, spanking, how about serving, rubber, whips, the list goes on and on.
Before you commit to anything I suggest you have a good think about all this and start making some lists. You may be asked what your limits are, you won't know that until you have sorted some of these more fundamental questions.
 

lovelyaliannnna

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Nov 30, 2014
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Ask away, we won't bite. Well maybe we will but thats not the point, what would you like to know?

Hmm ok well first things first you probably need to decide which side of the fence you sit. Do you consider you would be more submissive or are you more of a dominant type? I'm speaking sexually here of course and then there are those who "switch", that is they are submissive in some circumstances and dominant in others.
Next would be what type of kinks interest you, do you like rope bondage, spanking, how about serving, rubber, whips, the list goes on and on.
Before you commit to anything I suggest you have a good think about all this and start making some lists. You may be asked what your limits are, you won't know that until you have sorted some of these more fundamental questions.

THanks for the tips :)
 

conviction

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if you want any help being a sub, I am a master (18m) who prefers females and considers himself a specialist in helping people discover new kinks and fun ways to play, if you want to give me a jingle send me a PM and/or look up my ad (its second or third down in the east of the rockies personals section, too lazy at the moment to pull it up)

if you want to be a domme, send me a PM anyway, ill try to hook you up with a good male slave (or female, i know some lesbians) i get petitioned by too many because I prefer female but take male. finding a good slave is the hardest part, especially when you are new and think that every slave is good, you tend to settle for shittier slaves, there are a surprising amount out there.
 

PleaseHurtMe

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If you wanna know anything about being a switch - just ask! I'll be sweet like sugar or....evil like...auch :)
 

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