34 year old dominant male seeking a slave female under 40
About Me:
Age: 34
Role: Dominant
Location: Pennsylvania
Interests: I am fairly interested in any and all kinks except those that I list in my limits. The list is quite extensive so I will only hit the high points. Those are humiliation, anal play, vaginal play, breast play, spanking, light bondage, pain play and orgasm denial.
Limits: Scat, bestiality, blood, mutilation, scarring, children, permanent and illegal. This list may grow. Even experienced Dominants can be surprised.
Personality: I tend to be terse and often blunt. If I don't like something, you will know. I have a freebie rule. If I haven't given you instructions on a questionable area, then you can't read my mind. I will tell you what I expect then expect you to adhere to that guideline. I don't punish a sub for something that I didn't explain clearly enough. I am also patient but I will quickly lose interest if simple rules are not followed and simple tasks are not completed. I tend to be understanding and do know that sometimes it is not possible to carry out tasks. Legitimate reasons will be excused. If your reason for not doing a task is 'I don't feel like it' or 'I don't want to' then that is not a good reason. On the other hand, if your cat spontaneously combusted, I would be inclined towards leniency. I also cannot tolerate lying. If you have a camera but simply need time to work up the trust to send a picture, then say that rather than my dog ate it or a meteor struck it while you were on the way home. Simply put, be honest. I may not like the truth sometimes, but I won't punish you like I would if I catch you lying.
What I am looking for in any sub:
First, my sub/slave should be obedient and dedicated to being a sub. I understand that a sub has an outside life and outside responsibilities. I also expect the sub to follow my rules at all times. I expect the sub to be my sub and not simply my sub whenever I talk to her. That is why I am looking for serious subs rather than playmates.
Second, I expect my sub to communicate with me. I am not a mind reader, and just as I don't expect my sub to read my mind, I can't see the thoughts floating around above my sub's head. Do not be afraid to ask me to try something. At the same time do not be afraid to tell me something is bothering you. I can come off as intense and scary. I am, but that doesn't mean that I will not listen or be reasonable. I am also a teddy bear when you get to know me despite the fangs and claws. Do not make the mistake of seeing manners and kindness as weakness. I am looking for a sub that doesn't disappear down the rabbit hole when they see a shadow. If they intend to leave, I would like to know why.
Third, I expect the sub to provide a picture of themselves, clothed, and holding a sign with the current date. I will also expect the sub to provide other pictures as he or she begins to trust me.
Lastly, I expect them to be honest. Without honesty, there is no trust. Without trust, there is no bond. Without a bond, there is nothing to build upon. It will never be anything more than text on a screen.
For males:
I tend to be more strict with them. Expect to be treated like an object. I have specific requirements. They need to be slim, shaved, into anal, cbt, humiliation and cum swallowing/play. If any of that is in your limits, do not bother to respond.
Miscellaneous: In the interest of full disclosure, I have a few subs that I talk to and one that I dominate regularly. I have a camera and a webcam and have no qualms about proving I am exactly what and who I say I am. If you are interested and wish to apply, reply here or send a PM.
About Me:
Age: 34
Role: Dominant
Location: Pennsylvania
Interests: I am fairly interested in any and all kinks except those that I list in my limits. The list is quite extensive so I will only hit the high points. Those are humiliation, anal play, vaginal play, breast play, spanking, light bondage, pain play and orgasm denial.
Limits: Scat, bestiality, blood, mutilation, scarring, children, permanent and illegal. This list may grow. Even experienced Dominants can be surprised.
Personality: I tend to be terse and often blunt. If I don't like something, you will know. I have a freebie rule. If I haven't given you instructions on a questionable area, then you can't read my mind. I will tell you what I expect then expect you to adhere to that guideline. I don't punish a sub for something that I didn't explain clearly enough. I am also patient but I will quickly lose interest if simple rules are not followed and simple tasks are not completed. I tend to be understanding and do know that sometimes it is not possible to carry out tasks. Legitimate reasons will be excused. If your reason for not doing a task is 'I don't feel like it' or 'I don't want to' then that is not a good reason. On the other hand, if your cat spontaneously combusted, I would be inclined towards leniency. I also cannot tolerate lying. If you have a camera but simply need time to work up the trust to send a picture, then say that rather than my dog ate it or a meteor struck it while you were on the way home. Simply put, be honest. I may not like the truth sometimes, but I won't punish you like I would if I catch you lying.
What I am looking for in any sub:
First, my sub/slave should be obedient and dedicated to being a sub. I understand that a sub has an outside life and outside responsibilities. I also expect the sub to follow my rules at all times. I expect the sub to be my sub and not simply my sub whenever I talk to her. That is why I am looking for serious subs rather than playmates.
Second, I expect my sub to communicate with me. I am not a mind reader, and just as I don't expect my sub to read my mind, I can't see the thoughts floating around above my sub's head. Do not be afraid to ask me to try something. At the same time do not be afraid to tell me something is bothering you. I can come off as intense and scary. I am, but that doesn't mean that I will not listen or be reasonable. I am also a teddy bear when you get to know me despite the fangs and claws. Do not make the mistake of seeing manners and kindness as weakness. I am looking for a sub that doesn't disappear down the rabbit hole when they see a shadow. If they intend to leave, I would like to know why.
Third, I expect the sub to provide a picture of themselves, clothed, and holding a sign with the current date. I will also expect the sub to provide other pictures as he or she begins to trust me.
Lastly, I expect them to be honest. Without honesty, there is no trust. Without trust, there is no bond. Without a bond, there is nothing to build upon. It will never be anything more than text on a screen.
For males:
I tend to be more strict with them. Expect to be treated like an object. I have specific requirements. They need to be slim, shaved, into anal, cbt, humiliation and cum swallowing/play. If any of that is in your limits, do not bother to respond.
Miscellaneous: In the interest of full disclosure, I have a few subs that I talk to and one that I dominate regularly. I have a camera and a webcam and have no qualms about proving I am exactly what and who I say I am. If you are interested and wish to apply, reply here or send a PM.
- Kinks:
humiliation, anal play, vaginal play, breast play, spanking, light bondage, pain play and orgasm denial
- Experience:
I've had two serious D/s relationships in which I trained my partners to serve me. I've had many play sessions online and in real life.
- Limits:
Scat, bestiality, blood, mutilation, scarring, children, permanent and illegal. This list may grow. Even experienced Dominants can be surprised.
