Show of hands again, who thinks a sub is: a Slut? Emotionally damaged? Just seeking attention? Has gender issues? Looking for love in all the wrong places?
How many hands this time? Those of you who left your hands down are free to go the rest put your arms down and listen up.
A Slut
A sub seeks someone to give not only their heart but their whole being. This a true sub will be more chaste than any one looking for "love" because the stakes are much higher. They may "advertise" themselves places most would call "dirty" but they seek a certain quality that dating sites just don't test for. I know in my case I am a bit more promiscuous with a "Domme" than I would be other wise and I guess others are as well but I still deny it as being slutty, nae it is just upping the game to find out what the other is all about.
*Emotionaly Damaged"
A sub seeks someone to take complete contol of them. They seek to give of themself on a level that makes marriage look like the piece of paper that defines it. They wish to share and give their body, mind, emotion, devotion, and any other part to the one the deem worthy. Maybe you call it damage, I call it liberation.
Just seeking attention
I have heard this but don't really see it. Most subs seem to prefer to not be noticed. They are the ones siting back and reading/listening to all everyone has to say. The ones that post/ask an intelligent question then sit back to absorbe the answer.
Has gender issues
This is more said about the male sub, most likely because society tell us females are the natural submissives. But remember women's suffrage? Remember the equal rights movements? Equality of the sexes, it goes both ways. Why think any less of the male that wants to serve then your would of the female that wants to lead?
Another part of this has to do with pegging I'm sure. But really what sexual act better demonstrates submission then being penetrated in your exit. Male or female your showing that which you feel for your Dom.
Looking for love in all the wrong places
So this one is almost true. Other then love isn't what the sub seeks any more then a plant seeks to grow to a light bulb instead of the sun. So yes the are in the wrong place to seek love, but they seek so much more then that. They search deeper and harder, they open themself further, they bare it all to find that which most don't even know exists.
How many hands this time? Those of you who left your hands down are free to go the rest put your arms down and listen up.
A Slut
A sub seeks someone to give not only their heart but their whole being. This a true sub will be more chaste than any one looking for "love" because the stakes are much higher. They may "advertise" themselves places most would call "dirty" but they seek a certain quality that dating sites just don't test for. I know in my case I am a bit more promiscuous with a "Domme" than I would be other wise and I guess others are as well but I still deny it as being slutty, nae it is just upping the game to find out what the other is all about.
*Emotionaly Damaged"
A sub seeks someone to take complete contol of them. They seek to give of themself on a level that makes marriage look like the piece of paper that defines it. They wish to share and give their body, mind, emotion, devotion, and any other part to the one the deem worthy. Maybe you call it damage, I call it liberation.
Just seeking attention
I have heard this but don't really see it. Most subs seem to prefer to not be noticed. They are the ones siting back and reading/listening to all everyone has to say. The ones that post/ask an intelligent question then sit back to absorbe the answer.
Has gender issues
This is more said about the male sub, most likely because society tell us females are the natural submissives. But remember women's suffrage? Remember the equal rights movements? Equality of the sexes, it goes both ways. Why think any less of the male that wants to serve then your would of the female that wants to lead?
Another part of this has to do with pegging I'm sure. But really what sexual act better demonstrates submission then being penetrated in your exit. Male or female your showing that which you feel for your Dom.
Looking for love in all the wrong places
So this one is almost true. Other then love isn't what the sub seeks any more then a plant seeks to grow to a light bulb instead of the sun. So yes the are in the wrong place to seek love, but they seek so much more then that. They search deeper and harder, they open themself further, they bare it all to find that which most don't even know exists.