my partner has fallen deep into her alcoholoism and can barely address a sex life, let alone my kink needs. she is vanilla with a willingness to participate with me, but no desire of her own for it. fast forward 5 years or so of me ignoring it because im codependant , and i prioritized her, not my desires. now i feel my kink wont stay quiet, ive hit personal limits with the alcohol. and i am considering going to see a professional dom in our are just to stay safe and not explode from being in the "kink closet "anymore. I am looking for anyone who has been in a similar situation. I am not looking for a D/s relationship, I want advice
thanks to all, I dont have anyone in my personal life who may have had relevant experience/ would be mature enough to know anything about kink
thanks to all, I dont have anyone in my personal life who may have had relevant experience/ would be mature enough to know anything about kink
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