My boyfriend and I have been together two years and for the past seven months he has become submissive to me. He does the chores around our apartment and cooks me dinner every night when he gets home from work. Our arrangement has, for the most part, been great. If he does not complete his chores or make a decent meal he is punished with the cane at the end of the night. This is a true punishment and not one he enjoys by any means. Is he is a good boy he is only spanked with my paddle a little as a reward. I like to see his cute little butt squirm and turn cherry red.
The problem is that sometimes he comes home from work upset or tired and does a poor job at his chores. I still punish him but I feel bad about it. I understand that things happen but I don't know how to allow for it in our lifestyle. Does anyone have tips on dealing with the balance of work and home life in a dominant female relationship?
The problem is that sometimes he comes home from work upset or tired and does a poor job at his chores. I still punish him but I feel bad about it. I understand that things happen but I don't know how to allow for it in our lifestyle. Does anyone have tips on dealing with the balance of work and home life in a dominant female relationship?