Recent content by NotDeadButClose

It depends on how serious you are about things. The best devices require going to the manufacturer's website on location (Neosteel, Behind Barz, Steelwerks). Some of the good mass-market devices might be available at local shops (Holy Trainer, etc). For newbies I would recommend the Holy...

Shaving, an enema, and a long soak in the bath always did the trick for me. Scented oils afterwards can be nice depending on preferences.

Having to take an ice cold shower and then sleep naked on the floor (I get a tiny blanket) is a cruel punishment my girlfriend loves to deliver and that makes me both super miserable and turned on. It's frequently over tiny things like not properly putting my clothes away or not immediately...

I imagine paperclips could similarly be fashioned into something suitable.

Came back to report that after almost a week into wearing tight underwear to bed things are going a LOT better. I went from waking up 3 to 4 times a night to now only 1 or maybe 2 (much more normal imho). Also, daily wear has gotten a lot easier as my body has adjusted to the device. I honestly...

Ooo! Thanks! I'll give this a shot! I've always slept naked and it sounds like this might be part of the issue.

You bring up a really good point about putting my welfare first. I currently go to sleep early to compensate for the lost sleep.

Oooo! This is a great idea. I'll definitely get some to try out. Still looking for other advice as it's really too much work for my girlfriend to unlock/relock me daily. That's a lot to expect and ask of anyone.

I have a Holy Trainer v3 Nano and my girlfriend has been starting to lock me for longer periods of time. I'm currently at 2 weeks of 24/7 wear and have only been let out once for a shower to clean things. It was really rough at first as my balls constantly got pinched just going about my day and...

A few ideas Keep the device on her side of the bed. If she unlocks it, make sure it ends up in a place inconvenient for you later. Buy her a necklace to keep the key on. It will always be with her and she will remember. Develop a regular cleaning routine that she is a part of so that if you are...

I've been extremely interested in getting a chastity piercing for additional security. I've read a lot about them but would love to hear from people who have had them actually done to themselves or their partner. Prince Albert piercing (PA) These seems like the gold standard from what I've...

I've been slowly introducing my girlfriend of three years to my interest in orgasm denial, chastity, and femdom. The good news is she is interested, into it, and not running for the hills so far! The biggest issue (other than most chastity devices looking kinda ugly) is that sometimes just...

Does anyone have experience with shocking devices that work with smart phones? I've been eyeing Pavlok (apparently it actually hurts pretty bad!) but it's a little expensive and a fair number of the Amazon reviews say it has shoddy quality. It's too bad too because there are Pavlok-compatiable...

I find the figging sensation to be QUITE strong. It's definitely a slow build that incorporates best into a punishment session. Pairing it with a caning or spanking is fantastic as clenching will send a jolt of pain through your body. Why not give it a try and report back? A bit of practical...