As you may have read in "Introducing Yourself" or "Questions for Switches", I am the dominant by nature.
With an insatiable curiosity about the other side. Well, that definitely did not change tonight, but I did take a first step.
This will be more of an experience report about my first time rather than a porn story, so I'll put it here.
Of course, there are plenty of options on the Internet, from "Truth or Dare" to "Faproulette" to "Instruction Porn Video" and whatnot, to let someone else decide.
But they're usually pretty generic and too predictable. It's like reading the synopsis and conclusion of a book instead of letting the journey take its course.
For those who don't know, books are printed and organized collections of paper pages
Sometimes everything comes together perfectly and situations arise that you never expected.
This is also the case here in this forum, where I came across the "lovense link" thread by chance.
I knew what it was all about from various live cam sites, but the fact that it could also be completely anonymous was new to me.
And as if that wasn't enough, the official website for this toy (this is not an advertisement) offered a mega discount.
So I bought two toys that had aroused my curiosity, and a few days later the parcel service rang.
The anonymous thing was perfect, of course. Believe it or not, despite my dominance, I´m very reserved at first. Not exactly shy, but a bit introverted.
Once I had both loaded up, connected to the app and tried it out, all I needed was an account and I could create an anonymous link.
And post it...yes, where, actually. It would have been logical to post it in the "lovense link" thread, but when does a person act logically and emotionally? Especially since they say that anticipation is the greatest joy.
Something didn't fit, I felt too insecure - ridiculous, as a dom I develop several possible scenarios within a few minutes and what I have to pay attention to, the pros and cons. I analyze my opponent's gestures and facial expressions and radiate confidence.
And now I feel insecure...
Well, what now? Google has to help. A few hours later I had found both a Dicord server (which was out of the question) and a Reddit site.
Since I don't mix my work with my personal life and my public personal life (and by that I mean social media) with my kinks, I had a second account on reddit.
So I posted a link on reddit, clicked on the link to see if it worked, and waited and ... nothing.
Just to be sure, I checked the app again when I realized that I had logged in when I wanted to check the functionality of the link.
I laughed, ended the chat with myself and reactivated the link.
But now really, wait, wait and ... nothing. Well, that's what I expected. Patience is a virtue you have to learn.
So I started a movie and made something to eat. I was standing in the middle of the kitchen when suddenly my phone vibrated. And so did my toy.
I quickly unlocked my phone and swiped to the chat app. And sure enough, there was someone checking my toy.
Totally surprised, I stared at my phone for a few seconds and sent an emote. I got an emote back and didn't know what to say. Of course it was in English, that would make sense, but what?
A minute later, whoever it was disappeared and the toy went silent. Very professional how I had behaved. I should have managed a simple "Hi" or "Hello".
Resigned, I turned away from my phone and finished putting together my little meal.
After an unspecified amount of time, my phone started vibrating again. I paused the movie and checked. My toy responded in a few short bursts and I wrote a simple "Hello".
This was punctuated by longer activity from my toy and I received a "Hello" in response.
My toy activated a few more times in rhythmic bursts and I thanked it with an "I like it". My toy danced inside me for a few more minutes and the unknown visitor left without another word.
Not what I had hoped for. But as the saying goes, "Rome wasn't built in a day" - some things just take a little longer than you think.
It wasn't long before my toy answered again and I picked up my mobile phone. After a short mutual greeting I suddenly got the message that he was a man and if that was ok.
Well, why not, we men should know best what we men like ^^
I replied that it was no problem. Meanwhile my toy went up and down in intensity and I enjoyed the feeling inside me.
Man: "I am here with my wife and we were just curious and wanted to ask if these toys are worth it"?
I didn't expect this at all. English is not my first language, so my brain was working overtime to find and translate the right words.
It certainly didn't help that my toy was teasing me more and more and I was getting horny.
Me: "I'm also using this for the first time and came across it out of curiosity, but so far I'm very pleased. Both with the usability and the workmanship of my two toys,"
As soon as I had sent this, I wondered if I had written everything correctly and hoped that he understood what I was trying to say. But my worries were unfounded.
Man:"I hope you like it, my wife is already wet thinking about what it can do.
Me: "Oh yes, I'm really horny too." I felt a little embarrassed and naive as the next words formed in my head and I asked, "Can I fap"?
Man:"Go ahead, I've been doing it the whole time" came the rehearsal.
Me: "Thank you very much".
I leaned back, grabbed my dick and started masturbating.
Man:"How is the intensity" came the next question "My wife is a bit sensitive and too much would rather trigger the opposite of joy and excitement".
I told him that you can set the maximum level for each individual and he was thrilled with this information.
We continued writing for about 20 minutes, and my toy and its settings kept me well aroused the whole time.
But the mix of casual small talk and the toy stimulating me, as well as my own stimulation, was very nice and arousing, but it certainly wouldn't have been enough for more. We said goodbye and I turned the device off for the time being.
Shit, I was still aroused, my cock craved attention and my mind produced exciting scenarios.
I gave in, leaned back and let my thoughts continue to circle. Which in retrospect was a strange mix of my dominant and submissive nature.
After I had brought myself to climax twice, I scurried under the shower and returned to my "normal" private life.
Almost 3 hours passed when my phone suddenly vibrated, but there was no message. However, the app was active and I noticed that someone had clicked on the link, which of course I had completely forgotten to deactivate. That's when I noticed the strange noise coming from the bathroom, the toy had turned on. I went to the bathroom, took the toy, deactivated it and went back to my study. The visitor left shortly thereafter and I deactivated the link. That was not my way at all. With the link enabled, I had offered something I couldn't keep. I assured myself that this would not happen a second time.
I wanted to spend some time on my PC, but the toy next to me kept drawing my attention.
Finally I gave in to my curiosity and activated it, inserted it and created a new link. I made it a little more interesting by wrapping one of my cock rings around my balls. A quick thread on Reddit and a few minutes later, both the phone and the toy responded.
With an insatiable curiosity about the other side. Well, that definitely did not change tonight, but I did take a first step.
This will be more of an experience report about my first time rather than a porn story, so I'll put it here.
Of course, there are plenty of options on the Internet, from "Truth or Dare" to "Faproulette" to "Instruction Porn Video" and whatnot, to let someone else decide.
But they're usually pretty generic and too predictable. It's like reading the synopsis and conclusion of a book instead of letting the journey take its course.
For those who don't know, books are printed and organized collections of paper pages
Sometimes everything comes together perfectly and situations arise that you never expected.
This is also the case here in this forum, where I came across the "lovense link" thread by chance.
I knew what it was all about from various live cam sites, but the fact that it could also be completely anonymous was new to me.
And as if that wasn't enough, the official website for this toy (this is not an advertisement) offered a mega discount.
So I bought two toys that had aroused my curiosity, and a few days later the parcel service rang.
The anonymous thing was perfect, of course. Believe it or not, despite my dominance, I´m very reserved at first. Not exactly shy, but a bit introverted.
Once I had both loaded up, connected to the app and tried it out, all I needed was an account and I could create an anonymous link.
And post it...yes, where, actually. It would have been logical to post it in the "lovense link" thread, but when does a person act logically and emotionally? Especially since they say that anticipation is the greatest joy.
Something didn't fit, I felt too insecure - ridiculous, as a dom I develop several possible scenarios within a few minutes and what I have to pay attention to, the pros and cons. I analyze my opponent's gestures and facial expressions and radiate confidence.
And now I feel insecure...
Well, what now? Google has to help. A few hours later I had found both a Dicord server (which was out of the question) and a Reddit site.
Since I don't mix my work with my personal life and my public personal life (and by that I mean social media) with my kinks, I had a second account on reddit.
So I posted a link on reddit, clicked on the link to see if it worked, and waited and ... nothing.
Just to be sure, I checked the app again when I realized that I had logged in when I wanted to check the functionality of the link.
I laughed, ended the chat with myself and reactivated the link.
But now really, wait, wait and ... nothing. Well, that's what I expected. Patience is a virtue you have to learn.
So I started a movie and made something to eat. I was standing in the middle of the kitchen when suddenly my phone vibrated. And so did my toy.
I quickly unlocked my phone and swiped to the chat app. And sure enough, there was someone checking my toy.
Totally surprised, I stared at my phone for a few seconds and sent an emote. I got an emote back and didn't know what to say. Of course it was in English, that would make sense, but what?
A minute later, whoever it was disappeared and the toy went silent. Very professional how I had behaved. I should have managed a simple "Hi" or "Hello".
Resigned, I turned away from my phone and finished putting together my little meal.
After an unspecified amount of time, my phone started vibrating again. I paused the movie and checked. My toy responded in a few short bursts and I wrote a simple "Hello".
This was punctuated by longer activity from my toy and I received a "Hello" in response.
My toy activated a few more times in rhythmic bursts and I thanked it with an "I like it". My toy danced inside me for a few more minutes and the unknown visitor left without another word.
Not what I had hoped for. But as the saying goes, "Rome wasn't built in a day" - some things just take a little longer than you think.
It wasn't long before my toy answered again and I picked up my mobile phone. After a short mutual greeting I suddenly got the message that he was a man and if that was ok.
Well, why not, we men should know best what we men like ^^
I replied that it was no problem. Meanwhile my toy went up and down in intensity and I enjoyed the feeling inside me.
Man: "I am here with my wife and we were just curious and wanted to ask if these toys are worth it"?
I didn't expect this at all. English is not my first language, so my brain was working overtime to find and translate the right words.
It certainly didn't help that my toy was teasing me more and more and I was getting horny.
Me: "I'm also using this for the first time and came across it out of curiosity, but so far I'm very pleased. Both with the usability and the workmanship of my two toys,"
As soon as I had sent this, I wondered if I had written everything correctly and hoped that he understood what I was trying to say. But my worries were unfounded.
Man:"I hope you like it, my wife is already wet thinking about what it can do.
Me: "Oh yes, I'm really horny too." I felt a little embarrassed and naive as the next words formed in my head and I asked, "Can I fap"?
Man:"Go ahead, I've been doing it the whole time" came the rehearsal.
Me: "Thank you very much".
I leaned back, grabbed my dick and started masturbating.
Man:"How is the intensity" came the next question "My wife is a bit sensitive and too much would rather trigger the opposite of joy and excitement".
I told him that you can set the maximum level for each individual and he was thrilled with this information.
We continued writing for about 20 minutes, and my toy and its settings kept me well aroused the whole time.
But the mix of casual small talk and the toy stimulating me, as well as my own stimulation, was very nice and arousing, but it certainly wouldn't have been enough for more. We said goodbye and I turned the device off for the time being.
Shit, I was still aroused, my cock craved attention and my mind produced exciting scenarios.
I gave in, leaned back and let my thoughts continue to circle. Which in retrospect was a strange mix of my dominant and submissive nature.
After I had brought myself to climax twice, I scurried under the shower and returned to my "normal" private life.
Almost 3 hours passed when my phone suddenly vibrated, but there was no message. However, the app was active and I noticed that someone had clicked on the link, which of course I had completely forgotten to deactivate. That's when I noticed the strange noise coming from the bathroom, the toy had turned on. I went to the bathroom, took the toy, deactivated it and went back to my study. The visitor left shortly thereafter and I deactivated the link. That was not my way at all. With the link enabled, I had offered something I couldn't keep. I assured myself that this would not happen a second time.
I wanted to spend some time on my PC, but the toy next to me kept drawing my attention.
Finally I gave in to my curiosity and activated it, inserted it and created a new link. I made it a little more interesting by wrapping one of my cock rings around my balls. A quick thread on Reddit and a few minutes later, both the phone and the toy responded.
