For your personal understanding. You should start by your limits than work towards dislikes. So you end up with things you like.
Second thing think about your surrounding conditions. How much can you use and how much you can get away with.
Your living conditions matter a lot as well.
Most people, including me will likr to see nude first as to know what we are dealing with. But do not count that is a must condition for a relationship.
Also, it would be better if you understand general meaning of words and kinks.
There are many people who can help you with your question.