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hey, im getting 10ft of bondage rope delivered tomorrow and i want some ideas to make myself look pretty :)

anything simple/ beginner is appreciated!

if i like it, i’ll post pictures :)
 

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Sorry to disappoint you but 10' isn't really enough to do anything creative bondage wise. You really need double or even triple that for some interesting shibari style bondage.

Something like this for instance needs about 7m of rope which is about 21', so you get the idea.

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It should be enough to do a really simple rope bra, like the top portion of this example or for some simple leg binding.
 

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Sorry to disappoint you but 10' isn't really enough to do anything creative bondage wise. You really need double or even triple that for some interesting shibari style bondage.

Something like this for instance needs about 7m of rope which is about 21', so you get the idea.

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It should be enough to do a really simple rope bra, like the top portion of this example or for some simple leg binding.
my mistake! i meant 10metres.
 

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hey, im getting 10ft of bondage rope delivered tomorrow and i want some ideas to make myself look pretty :)

anything simple/ beginner is appreciated!

if i like it, i’ll post pictures :)
U can do a trap bondoge(i think what its called) one end of the rope is around ur neck and when u try to escape around ur neck will get tighter
 

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U can do a trap bondoge(i think what its called) one end of the rope is around ur neck and when u try to escape around ur neck will get tighter
Oh for fuck sake!!!

DO NOT attempt anything with a rope around your neck. This is exactly the kind of dumb ass shit that get's people killed.

Self bondage is never to be taken lightly, done incorrectly you can end up in all kinds of trouble. Everything from becoming tangled and unable to free yourself to falling are entirely possible. All it takes is a fall the wrong way with a rope around your neck and you're dead in minutes.

Just stop and think before posting, an actual person is asking for ideas, a real, living human being, this isn't some video game where if you fuck up you just reset and try again. And no, its not all fantasy either. Some people take this stuff seriously and will actually do what you say, so when you say stupid shit they might just do it.
 

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A helpful tip since you’re self tying. Keep some scissors nearby within reach so if you have an emergent situation you can cut the rope for a quick escape. Also your phone in reach. Things happen all the time unplanned. So be prepared. At this early stage do not ever tie anything around your neck. People will spout off all sorts of fantasy ideas they saw in porn on from kinky pics. Because it’s not their body or their trip to the ER. They damn sure won’t be able to cut you free through the internet. So just trust your gut. If it sounds stupid It probably is. Doc set you up with a good basic beginners tie. Play around with that see how you like it.

Those fantasy scenes mentioned above are all done under safe conditions with others present and always a way out.
 

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U can do a trap bondoge(i think what its called) one end of the rope is around ur neck and when u try to escape around ur neck will get tighter
What sort of idiot would write this.. are you being serious? Maybe you need some rope bondage around your hands to stop you writing such ridiculous comments. You cannot use rope around the neck at all!!! and for you to suggest that to someone who has clearly stated that they are doing bondage on themselfs with no assistance with nobody to help in an emergency is wrong!! You need to be banned for this!!
 

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Oh for fuck sake!!!

DO NOT attempt anything with a rope around your neck. This is exactly the kind of dumb ass shit that get's people killed.

Self bondage is never to be taken lightly, done incorrectly you can end up in all kinds of trouble. Everything from becoming tangled and unable to free yourself to falling are entirely possible. All it takes is a fall the wrong way with a rope around your neck and you're dead in minutes.

Just stop and think before posting, an actual person is asking for ideas, a real, living human being, this isn't some video game where if you fuck up you just reset and try again. And no, its not all fantasy either. Some people take this stuff seriously and will actually do what you say, so when you say stupid shit they might just do it.
thanks for this. there needs to be more people looking out for others.

to ease your concern i absolutely will not be trying anything like this. any self bondage i do is usually merely cosmetic (simple chest harnesses, dresses, thigh wraps) and i always keep a pair of bandage scissors within reach :)
 

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Sorry to disappoint you but 10' isn't really enough to do anything creative bondage wise. You really need double or even triple that for some interesting shibari style bondage.

Something like this for instance needs about 7m of rope which is about 21', so you get the idea.

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It should be enough to do a really simple rope bra, like the top portion of this example or for some simple leg binding.
Tie me like this @droptokon 😋😋
 
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A helpful tip since you’re self tying. Keep some scissors nearby within reach so if you have an emergent situation you can cut the rope for a quick escape. Also your phone in reach. Things happen all the time unplanned. So be prepared. At this early stage do not ever tie anything around your neck. People will spout off all sorts of fantasy ideas they saw in porn on from kinky pics. Because it’s not their body or their trip to the ER. They damn sure won’t be able to cut you free through the internet. So just trust your gut. If it sounds stupid It probably is. Doc set you up with a good basic beginners tie. Play around with that see how you like it.

Those fantasy scenes mentioned above are all done under safe conditions with others present and always a way out.
thank you.

i always keep a pair of scissors made specifically to cut bondage rope within reach and more often than not will try some of the more difficult ones with one of my kinky friends just in case.
self bondage can cause all sorts of problems as im sure you are aware which is why most of the stuff i tend to do is cosmetic such as simple chest harnesses or dresses etc.

i will keep this in mind :)
 
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For additional ideas check out the oldie BoundAnna. Note: you must be over 21 but this applies for US if I remember. You don't need an account anyway.


Try the below but keep it safe as explained. They are just my own experiments:
For myself I am thinking on some "strappado" ideas (first photo), using weights. I can use 2 cable ties, one around each wrist, a small kitchen hook holding the ties together and attached to the rope. Weights can be a few 5l bottles of water.

Double the weight force using a pulley. Use it opposite to the practical physics that helps you lift things. In this example (second pic) YOUR HANDS are the LOAD and the FORCE is the weight given by the bottles (the second doubles the weight, the next make it 2 times heavier).

Note that strappado suspension is very dangerous, even simple strappado can be (you don't want a dislocated shoulder). I practiced a favorable height by holding my hands to a support and leaning down. The arms must be close together (the reason in this kind of bondage the elbows are also tied, but can't be done in selfbondage).

An idea: years ago I loved upside down suspension. I tied my ankles and hold the rope with my hands pulling my body upwards. I have new ideas coming using the right weights: you can use the 3rd example of pulleys. The needed force to lift you should be a little more than half of yours. (btw ignore the 4th)

The pulley disks can be done by anything. For the bottom one look at the Fishing store for fishing wire, they are cheap and sold rolled on a disk exactly like you need. The above ones are wall mounted things.

And always keep a pair of scissors at hand, just in case. Maybe tied to the end of a rope, easy to reach.

PS: Hope I don't get much criticism, I am struggling to explain it safely.

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hey, im getting 10ft of bondage rope delivered tomorrow and i want some ideas to make myself look pretty :)

anything simple/ beginner is appreciated!

if i like it, i’ll post pictures :)
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Can you please explain how to tie it sir??
Please read the comments after that post.

Self bondage can be dangerous, especially when new to it. Any kind of bondage that puts rope around your neck can potentially be deadly.

I'd suggest spend a bit of time reading some of the threads in the Kink Talk University series.
Start with these two then work through some of the others to get a better understanding before jumping into a dangerous or deadly mistake.


 

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thanks for the view, she's awesome.

By the way, in my teenage times I loved self bondage, mostly upside down suspension. I was slim and even I wasn't a sport I could pull myself up. Using a door mostly but I don't really remember how I could do that by hanging against just a big nail on the wall and a sheet as a rope. Then I was starting to study pulleys trying to achieve a bit more of self bondage.

I later found your shibari example photo (it's on the web for years) and tried on myself, then on my wife. Elastic cords, not ropes, were easier to get them off if someone came by.

Never self breath play btw. I find it dangerous and useless.
 

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Aso new to bondage and looking for ideas! As well as advice/safety for self choking using a collar, and any ideas or information as to how I can rope up my own tits, especially attracted to the idea of using twine to tie my nipples, for using as a discreet public tease for when I go grocery shopping or whatever lol
 

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advice/safety for self choking using a collar
Whoa!

Advice, DO NOT ATTEMPT THIS.

Plenty of people die every year attempting auto-asphyxiation, there is no margin for error with this type of play.
Never play any solo bondage games with anything that can tighten around your neck. There are far too many ways for it to go wrong and absolutely no one to help when it does.

There are plenty of other bondage games you can enjoy, lots and lots to learn. Check out my list of ideas here:


Specific instructions on boob bondage here:

 

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