I've been playing with and training an online sub for about three months. (We're thousands of miles apart, so RL isn't possible at this time.) On the whole, things are going well. But I've encountered a behavior problem w/ the slut I've been unable to correct thus far.
Though she's proven she's willing & able to do tasks I assign her, she has a tendency to procrastinate when performing tasks. With the result that too often she misses the deadline I've given her for completion of the task. Resulting in punishments -- but not a change on the offending behavior.
We've discussed this on a couple of occasions, but she's still persisting in this behavior. I have no inclination to remind/hound her about this -- too much like keeping after a kid to do their homework. But I'd rather the tasks get done in a timely manner, rather than having to keep coming up w/ punishments for the bitch.
I'm wondering if anyone has any suggestions for how to deal with this. (And, yes, I've considered the possibility that the behavior is at least semi-deliberate, that she wants to get punished. But I don't think that's the case. She's been very adamant about wanting to please me, & not disappoint me.)
Though she's proven she's willing & able to do tasks I assign her, she has a tendency to procrastinate when performing tasks. With the result that too often she misses the deadline I've given her for completion of the task. Resulting in punishments -- but not a change on the offending behavior.
We've discussed this on a couple of occasions, but she's still persisting in this behavior. I have no inclination to remind/hound her about this -- too much like keeping after a kid to do their homework. But I'd rather the tasks get done in a timely manner, rather than having to keep coming up w/ punishments for the bitch.
I'm wondering if anyone has any suggestions for how to deal with this. (And, yes, I've considered the possibility that the behavior is at least semi-deliberate, that she wants to get punished. But I don't think that's the case. She's been very adamant about wanting to please me, & not disappoint me.)