Posting this here as it seems appropriate here...
Earlier on I met another person who claimed himself off as a dom, at first he seemed kinda cool. We then started to discuss stuff such as punishments, now to me I consider spankings and playful hits which don't leave permanent damage to be all right.
Though when he went into the punishments and stuff he uses to keep pets in line, I was utterly appauled. His idea of punishments or stuff to keep his pets in line was to actually do damage.
He had told me about this one time he broke his slaves arm, threatened her and then took her to hospital for no utter reason than to keep her in line.
Now as all I am aware, there is a thin line between playfully hitting and abuse. I would never ever be involved in a D/S relationship that involved anything I thought was abuse.
Tell me your thoughts on:
Using a D/S relationship for abuse?
The above person I mentioned?
The mental and physical health problems this may cause people?
Or anything else thats related to this topic?
Earlier on I met another person who claimed himself off as a dom, at first he seemed kinda cool. We then started to discuss stuff such as punishments, now to me I consider spankings and playful hits which don't leave permanent damage to be all right.
Though when he went into the punishments and stuff he uses to keep pets in line, I was utterly appauled. His idea of punishments or stuff to keep his pets in line was to actually do damage.
He had told me about this one time he broke his slaves arm, threatened her and then took her to hospital for no utter reason than to keep her in line.
Now as all I am aware, there is a thin line between playfully hitting and abuse. I would never ever be involved in a D/S relationship that involved anything I thought was abuse.
Tell me your thoughts on:
Using a D/S relationship for abuse?
The above person I mentioned?
The mental and physical health problems this may cause people?
Or anything else thats related to this topic?
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