I have been around the block a few times in the bdsm scene. I am a very experienced sub and have educated myself deeply on just about every subject concerning the lifestyle.
I believe that a M/s relationship is a relationship of mutual trust and respect. It is not about a dom barking orders at you but molding and shaping you into an honoring sub that worships you because you respect her.
Recently, I put up an inviting post I have never been so appalled. I literally have received hundreds of messages but 95% of them were disrespectful or just looking at a good time or severely sadistic.
This lifestyle is about mutual honesty, trust and respect....
I believe that a M/s relationship is a relationship of mutual trust and respect. It is not about a dom barking orders at you but molding and shaping you into an honoring sub that worships you because you respect her.
Recently, I put up an inviting post I have never been so appalled. I literally have received hundreds of messages but 95% of them were disrespectful or just looking at a good time or severely sadistic.
This lifestyle is about mutual honesty, trust and respect....