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  1. chokedncollared

    Kimuratrap Teaches me a Lesson About Whining 4/6/21

    Last night was supposed to be an easy night. We were both tired, it was late, and the night before had been long and rough. But early in the day, my smart mouth was already getting me in trouble, and that was how I ended up blindfolded with headphones on and bound. Kimuratrap didn’t want me to...
  2. chokedncollared

    Spanked, Anal Leashed, and Ass Fucked by Kimuratrap 4/5/21

    One of Kimuratrap’s favorite things to do is put me in a situation that makes me choose between two difficult things. Last night was one of those nights. As he says, I don’t listen when I’m told to stay still. When a spanking becomes too much, I can’t stop the instinct to block my butt with my...
  3. chokedncollared

    Extreme Emotions?

    The last two nights, I have experienced extreme emotions while playing. After an intense period of time tied to a ladder with more degradation than we have done in the past, I was done during but afterward like about to cry. (Thankfully @Kimuratrap is amazing after aftercare, but in the case, it...
  4. chokedncollared

    with Kimuratrap - April 3rd - A Long Overdue Punishment for Disrespect

    Last night was a harder night than usual; so much so that I broke down at the end. But it was also a long time coming. For those who don’t know our story, I’ve been with Kimuratrap for over fifteen years. He’s always had a dominant nature, and the first night I slept with him was the night he...
  5. chokedncollared

    Gags  Open mouth gag suggestions?

    We have tried a couple o-ring gags now and haven’t had much luck. The first one was too small for Kimuratrap to use my mouth while the gag was in as he is above average. The second one was too big for my mouth as I have a small mouth (literally, the dentist even said so - I only have 24 adult...
  6. chokedncollared

    With Kimuratrap 4/1/21: Degraded, Spanked, Orgasm Edging, Anal, Facefucked (An Average Night)

    Thank you, sir, for the kind words and for liking my effort enough to think it’s worth showing here. I’m so lucky to have you as an owner and to be used by you and hope I will be given many more opportunities to please you.
  7. chokedncollared

    Thudy vs stingy

    I prefer when @Kimuratrap spanks me OTK with his hand, which he can do in a thudding or stinging way. The thudding spanks seem to leave bruises and the pain of those intensify faster (with less swats) so if it’s a long spanking, I prefer stinging slaps.
  8. chokedncollared

    With Kimuratrap 4/1/21: Degraded, Spanked, Orgasm Edging, Anal, Facefucked (An Average Night)

    While waiting for Kimuratrap to finish his shower, I contemplate getting off the bed. It’s so comfortable. I don’t want to move. I just want to lay there, naked, ass up. But I’ve been looking forward to playtime tonight and don’t want to turn it into a punishment, so as soon as I hear the shower...
  9. chokedncollared

    Real life versus realistic

    It can be depending on how you set it up. I have kids with my owner and I have a job. We have certain tasks I'm expected to have done and there are consequences if they aren't done. There are also consequences for disrespect, having a smart mouth, inconsiderate actions/words, etc. However, the...
  10. chokedncollared

    Female Post Orgasm Torture

    The first step would be to understand anatomy. For some women (perhaps many or even most), a vibrator "shoved into their pussy" isn't going to cause an orgasm. You'd want to direct that vibration toward the clitoris. Scientifically speaking... "women over 40 years of age were more likely to...
  11. chokedncollared

    New to DDLG.

    The point of punishments is not to like them. You can try reward only, but if you’re not seeing growth from that, you may need to reconsider punishments being part of the dynamic. Punishments don’t have to be painful, though they can be. Non-Painful punishments can be: - being used in sex...
  12. chokedncollared

    Slut Training

    Talk to your significant other. He may have interests you don't even know about that he's kept quiet about same as you have. Here is a quiz you can both take: https://sexionnaire.com/ and then it will only show you guys what you both have in common.
  13. chokedncollared

    Most humiliating gags

    Some of these answers sound like they are proposing the most disgusting gag versus the most humiliating one, but I guess maybe for some the two would be one and the same. For me, gross versus humiliating are different things, so I would so penis gag is most humiliating. But also Heternno said...
  14. chokedncollared

    Punishment ideas using carrot

    Maybe having to hold the carrot in your ass while rubbing the other end of the carrot against a grater to grate the carrot? If it's for your owner/master/dom they could watch which you do this and chastise you if you aren't doing a good job.
  15. chokedncollared

    Which punishments would you rather have

    I didn't know that's what this is called. @Kimuratrap does things like this to me sometimes, but I like it (even when I don't like it) so it's not really a punishment.
  16. chokedncollared

    embarassing mouth gag

    The one where the mouth is open. The penis gag, no one will know what that is once it's in place. (That has been used on me before, while it's embarrassing, especially when @Kimuratrap comments on it while using me in other ways, it doesn't look like much on the outside.) The open mouth gag is a...
  17. chokedncollared

    My BDSM TEST RESULT

    == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Rope bunny 99% Submissive 95% Degradee 91% Masochist 75% Brat 62% Primal (Prey) 53% Experimentalist 36% Pet 33% Slave 32% Vanilla 27% Switch 11% Voyeur 5% Non-monogamist 0% Ageplayer 0% Boy/Girl 0% Exhibitionist
  18. chokedncollared

    Tired of words

    I met my owner in a bar. He was always a dominant type, but not part of the fetish world. I was always a submissive type, but not part of the fetish world. We both kept our fantasies to ourselves for many years... I don't remember how it came up, but we ended up finding out we both were always...