relationship advice

  1. BooplesnootGrl

    Need Advice- Here is my Story

    So honestly I came here looking for advice. I have a major conundrum. I have been with the same woman for nearly 8 years (this is NOT a "well I am having second thoughts" post)... We started our relationship as somewhat switch. We both wore collars, however I somehow stupidly agreed to be the...
  2. K

    Couple needing help re-establishing Power dynamic

    Hoping some folks in here have some good advice. I'll provide the high-level story and then fill in the details and highlight them as needed. My wife and I have been married for 15 years and at the beginning of our relationship, the power dynamic was great. She would willingly give control and...
  3. K

    Fit for a relationship?

    So a little background. Been in a relationship with my current girlfriend, we live together, sex is amazing and all is well. Eventhough she plays along with many of my kinks (she became quite good) there is still one thing that she can't achieve. I really like cock. So the only way to achieve...
  4. J

    Chastity Task/suggestions for wife (to make it more interesting)

    My wife and I play chastity games with me being more into it than she is. She never initiates it and when we do play she's somewhat interested but is very quick to release me early and is always WAY too nice even when I let her know I like it when she's not as nice. I've tired all the standard...
  5. J

    What's my Deal???

    I have a new partner and we have a problem connecting sexually. I'm highly sexual and I don't usually have a problem being or staying aroused. For some reason whenever we get ready to have sex I can't. I think it's the added pressure or the fact that she doesn't orgasm from intercourse but...
  6. B

    Ace partner

    So I've been with my partner for 5 years and they're ace so we dont have sex. I'm really into kink stuff so it's kind of getting to me that they're uncomfortable with me seeing other ppl. I love them but I went to explore things....
  7. MistressHandcuffs

    Female Switch.. with a Vanilla Spouse..

    Hey everyone, I am new here. . . so not sure what to honestly title this post (haha). I have known for several years that I am a Switch, and for several years I've been exploring the BDSM lifestyle more and more.. without violating the boundaries of my present marriage. My spouse is "vanilla"...
  8. D

    need help.

    So there is this girl I did not see for a long time(I do really like her though). Last week I saw her again and I know for sure I still like her. Thing is, about 7 years ago she told me she liked me and then I sad I did not feel the same way (I was like 10 and did not realize that I liked her I...
  9. S

    Help - Long term partner rarely has sex w/me & I need kink

    I am a cisgender female and identify as pansexual. I have been with my partner for about 5 years now and she is also a cisgender female. She is an incredible human being and we are deeply in love with one another. In almost every aspect of our relationship, things are pretty amazing. We have...
  10. N

    He wants to collar me. Need advice

    So my Dom and I haven't been together very long, but it's been incredibly intense for both of us. We've connected on many levels, not just sex, and he's been talking about collaring me, but I'm not so sure I'll accept. Part of me is very excited about this and would love to. I love him very...