Hi, I am new to kinktalk. I am interested in masculinising and defeminize go myself. I do not have a domme to do so. But I am desperate to do it to myself. Does anyone have any suggestions? I have googled my fetish but found nothing. Just one or two erotica stories and those not extreme enough. I have some ideas please tell me your view on them.
1. Using men's body wash/perfume
2. What should I do with my body hair?
3. Should I wear bras my boobs are 36c
4. I am thick and muscular should I loose weight or gain it?
5. What kinds of clothing should I wear?
6. I want to start sleeping on the floor with a collar on.
7. How should I pee?
8. What hairstyle should I cut?
I am very deeply into humiliation . Public is also fine.
Pls help me with your suggestions
mmm this is a very interesting fetish, as I've known many guys that want to be feminized but never really met any women that want to be more masculine (apart from trans people). that said I do have a few ideas if you're still looking for them... but first let's address your list
1. using men's bodywash/shampoo/deodorant/cologne/etc. would be perfectly fine (actually just among more boyish lesbians it isn't unheard of so it isn't something that will stand out too much) you may even want to splash some aftershave on your face from time to time regardless of if you need to shave or not.
2. mmmm when it comes to body hair I'd say it kind of depends on the type of guy you would like to be masculinized into, but I'd say that you shouldn't shave your pubes, and possibly not your pits either. You mentioned you have a thick muscular body so if that is the case then a lot of muscular guys shave there arms and legs (at least what would be visible).
3. I don't think you should really wear bras anymore the goal is to make you more masculine and a lot less feminine right? so bras are definitely out, another person said you could wear a binder that trans men wear but unfortunately I don't know the price on that, and since it sounds kind of like something meant for medical use it might be rather pricey. If this is the case alternative methods could be wrapping your chest (I can't remember the specific word for it but basically your bind your chest tightly in medical gauze if you're into bondage and/or pain this might be better but don't sleep with it on and you should basically remove it once you come home for the day) another option is simply buying a sports bra as many men see them as being unwomanlike or not cute.
4. if anything I'd say you should keep exorcising and build up more muscle not really to the point that you look like a body builder but at least enough that you can kind of see it without flexing
5. probably men's clothes, let's see here for starters you would want to wear clothes that aren't cute or very girly in general, I'd say go for darker shades and if you really want to go all out on the whole make me more masculine thing then buying men's clothes/men's sizes would be a must. also for underwear you should wear boxers, except during your period then you need to wear girls underwear but in this case I'd suggest wearing boyshorts as they are the closest to boys underwear you can get... well or you could use tampons instead of pads but in a way isn't that less masculine than wearing panties? plus you can still leak wearing tampons depending on how heavy your periods are...
6. uhm... ok this one has nothing to really do with the whole masculinity thing but if you really want to then I'd suggest getting a collar and sleeping naked every night but when it comes to the whole sleeping on the floor thing I wouldn't suggest doing it too often because it will basically ruin your back later on in life, so maybe twice a week at most
7. mmm it kind of depends I think that in your own home you should pee standing up (mmm it's kind of hard to explain the exact poses required but just keep experimenting until you figure it out) also when it comes to doing this in public since you will more or less have to get naked from the waist down it'll be up to you whether you do it or not, that said I'd like to mention that it is very humiliating to do this in public even when no one is watching so it should go great with your humiliation fetish
8. as for your hairstyle I think it should at least be a shorter cut but if that doesn't really work for you (like you don't look good with short hair) go for something a little more tomboy like a ponytail
ok finally onto other suggestions
first I think you might want to try using the men's restroom whenever possible. next you should wear little to no makeup. third and finally, if you are fine with the smell you might want to try not wearing any deodorant especially before any heavy workouts as this all be it gross can also be seen as being a more manly stench, it's also very embarrassing to know that you're the cause of it.
