Chastity Contract to Quit Smoking Ideas

Nero973

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Ok, so here’s the situation:

I am entering into a contract to use a chastity device to give up control of my orgasms during the time period that I will quit smoking cigarettes. (If you don’t know what that is or you’re not into the kinky side of life

I am in a loving relationship and my partner is very much in consent with this idea. The only problem is she truly enjoys having sex with me and is worried this will end up putting her in an undesirable position. However, she wants me to quit smoking more so she sees this as something she would very much be willing to trade for. In doing so she has agreed to uphold the parameters of the contract to their fullest extent.

What I would love some help with are any ideas you believe would be effective for this situation? (Punishments, Rewards, Time Frames, etc.) Any and all suggestions are welcome and I will update with the results of the information provided. Thank you in advance for your contribution!
 

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This is an interesting one that's going to require more thought than I currently have time for, but you definitely should have some short term rewards that will keep you dedicated to quitting, especially since quitting smoking is very difficult.

You're going to need to remove your chastity device to wash yourself at least once a day. Ideally your partner should supervise these sessions and, better yet, if she has the time and ability, should wash you herself. If you've gotten through the previous day without relapsing, or giving in to frustration, then this should be your time for an edge. Maybe 10 edges earns you a night off from the cage?
 
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Nero973

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This is an interesting one that's going to require more thought than I currently have time for, but you definitely should have some short term rewards that will keep you dedicated to quitting, especially since quitting smoking is very difficult.

You're going to need to remove your chastity device to wash yourself at least once a day. Ideally your partner should supervise these sessions and, better yet, if she has the time and ability, should wash you herself. If you've gotten through the previous day without relapsing, or giving in to frustration, then this should be your time for an edge. Maybe 10 edges earns you a night off from the cage?
Those are amazing ideas, thank you VERY much!! :)
 

shyoldguy

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The smoking addiction is both mental and physical. A big part of quiting is substitution something else for the oral feelings when smoking. I would suggest satisfying the smoking craving with orally satisfying the girl friend. It might turn into a habit the girl friend enjoys too!
 
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The smoking addiction is both mental and physical. A big part of quiting is substitution something else for the oral feelings when smoking. I would suggest satisfying the smoking craving with orally satisfying the girl friend. It might turn into a habit the girl friend enjoys too!
I totally agree with shyoldguy. Definitely satisfy your gf orally substitute a dildo if She still wants to feel penetration.
If She still desires your cock to satify Her desires, then She unlocks you to use you as Her dildo, but you must ask for Her permission to release cum (which you should do anyway).
 

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I guess it depends on how far you are into quitting,

Trade days caged for a 'smoke', I really like the other direction mentioned bu MissKudo.
This is an interesting one that's going to require more thought than I currently have time for, but you definitely should have some short term rewards that will keep you dedicated to quitting, especially since quitting smoking is very difficult.

You're going to need to remove your chastity device to wash yourself at least once a day. Ideally your partner should supervise these sessions and, better yet, if she has the time and ability, should wash you herself. If you've gotten through the previous day without relapsing, or giving in to frustration, then this should be your time for an edge. Maybe 10 edges earns you a night off from the cage?
 

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