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Hi Everyone, So I've had this kink for a few years now, never acted on it as I didnt quite understand or know how/why it started, until recently when it just became too much. I was wondering if anyone else has this sort of demented kink or am I one of a few? I like the idea of a hairy female...

So honestly I came here looking for advice. I have a major conundrum. I have been with the same woman for nearly 8 years (this is NOT a "well I am having second thoughts" post)... We started our relationship as somewhat switch. We both wore collars, however I somehow stupidly agreed to be the...

Hello, I'm new here and this is my very first post: IDK how to explore them. I have many kinks and I have even done a BDSM test to find out my personality, from that I can just tell I'm a 110% sub. The problem is for me that I've never explored any of my kinks much or at all. Like I want to but...

First time poster…I don’t know if this goes here so tell me if I should move it. my predicament is that I am in a long term relationship and I do love my girlfriend, she’s a switch into bondage like I am, my problem is that recently one of my long time female friends has been getting really...

First of, what is this post, well kind of a universal collection of lil trics and ideas for online play, please feel free to comment, sugest and improve. Toys are often quite limited, there have been numerous threads about different objects, so for that just view this here...

Hi I'm Jay I'm new to being a dom and would really appreciate advice or tips seeing as I really don't know what I'm doing

I was looking for advice on this idea I have had for my partner. I am a 18m and she's 18f, recently we went to a park after dark and we had some vanilla sex, but then next time we both agreed on some more kinky ideas. We are both switches and so I was thinking of two scenarios; Either she is...

I’m very new to BDSM/Kinks, all my past sexual relationships have been very vanilla. Ive been seeing this guy for the past few months, and he is into a ton of different things. femdom/mommy/sph/degredation/cuckolding.... and others. Im open minded and have been having fun learning about and...

So I’ve been into kink for years on and off. Every time I start to have fun and get really into it, I’m hit with this immeasurable amount of guilt because I’m doing something wrong. And, I know realistically I’m not because everything is consensual and safe, but that thought always hits me and...

So I recently was able to get a male friend to give me their chastity key after I found out that they had one, and it's been a bit of a mixed experience so far. On the one hand I enjoy having access to dat ass whenever I want, but he has been reluctant to give up his independent will. He resists...

I am home alone for a couple of weeks and I thought now is the time to buy my first toy. but I don't know what to get so I will ask it here. post what toy I should get and what I should do with it. You can post anything you want. make it as extreem as you want. I will pick the dare I like, get...

Hi, I’m looking for some advice and guidance in buying my first toys. Any ideas are welcome. Please post here, or message my kik. If you kik me I can be asked to strip and show my body. When I purchase some I’ll send any pictures of me using them to your kik username. If 5 people post...

So there is this girl I did not see for a long time(I do really like her though). Last week I saw her again and I know for sure I still like her. Thing is, about 7 years ago she told me she liked me and then I sad I did not feel the same way (I was like 10 and did not realize that I liked her I...

I am a cisgender female and identify as pansexual. I have been with my partner for about 5 years now and she is also a cisgender female. She is an incredible human being and we are deeply in love with one another. In almost every aspect of our relationship, things are pretty amazing. We have...

Hello. Im a 20 yo female, curious about being submissive. Been thinking about it for some time now but never had the courage to do it. Any tips or recommendations you can give me?? Im looking for some info, opinions,stories.. thx for your time!

So, I'm fairly new to exposure. I've had an adamant fear of pictures for most of my life but I've been getting over it steadily to the point where now I only really protest pictures with my face. But I make exceptions to that every now and then. I've been trying to take things head first by...

My boyfriend is currently in Colorado. I want to find new ways to play with him at a distance. I want to be submissive to him but it's hard not physically being together Any ideas on what the two of us could do. We have talked about using kik and skype to do things together.

Hey there! My sub and I are just diving deeper into our kinks. I've been into BDSM for quite sometime (but still consider myself sort of green) but have never been able to get anyone I've dated into it. But now my SO has given me SOOOO many green lights after I Dommed him. And oh man I'm so...

I'm new to this whole BDSM thing but a few of my friends have been helping me learn more about it. I am a submissive type naturally but I can't submit to someone that I can't be romantically involved with. I submit mostly out of love, and I enjoy having control taken from me. I particularly like...

So. This is my first time publically acknowledging that I have a kink. I am a bit scared about announcing this but I need to get this out there somehow. Growing up, I've realized I need spice with sex and I have been without it for some time. I just feel unfulfilled after sex and I don't think...